How to Deal With a Brat


Do you have a girl in your life who makes you feel worthless? Is she a huge brat? An old, evil friend? Whoever she is, there is a few simple steps that can get you back on track with your life.

Steps

  1. 1
    Be nice to her. The best thing to give her is kindness. Trash her all you want behind her back if she really deserves it, but never show anger or sadness near her- because, hey; what do you think she wants? Plus, if you get in an argument and she starts listing what you did, she can't really say much about you if you did nothing wrong. Who's the loser now?
  2. 2
    If her "hate" for you is because of something you have done in the past, apologize. Obviously she probably will make it a huge deal, but be very calm and firm at the same time. Don't yell with a confused look on your face.
  3. 3
    If she just flat out doesn't like you, try to think why. Maybe you wear too-loose jeans or have bad acne, or maybe you are a huge gossiper. Or, you are considered "annoying". Try to figure out how to avoid these things.
  4. 4
    If she doesn't like your appearance, who cares? You are who you are, and that's what really matters. Don't alter yourself just to make the girl appreciate you- that's the absolute wrong thing to do.
  5. 5
    Queen Bees often have weird relationships with people. They like you one day and hate you the next because, apparently, saying her best friend looked good with her boyfriend was a bad thing. If this is exactly how they are, don't even try. Just be nice and friendly. Pushiness, competition, and annoyance are their three main problems. Pushiness is uncomfortable for them, because it makes them feel pressured in an awkward situation and that they are really desperate. Competition might make her angry or jealous, but if it's clear you're competition, then so be it. Annoyance is just... well, annoyance. Desperation comes along with most of these. If you aren't in her clique now, you probably will never be. If you are, and you searched this article with the word "brat", then get the hell out of that group.
  6. 6
    Remember that the "popularity brats" only act like this to feel powerful. Yes, it gives you a sense of accomplishment- but are you really winning if you're hurting others? No! They only act "happy" and "outgoing" because of their status. It's like a bubble. Anyone outside it is unworthy and weird, but everyone's mind is like a race track. Its so competitive, and there are so many lies and insecurities, and too much drama to handle- it's just not worth it. It's a ton of work to be in a clique like this, and no matter what you think, there are very few times when you feel happy with people like this.
  7. 7
    One of the biggest things you can do for the relationship is to just tell her that you care about her even when she does mean things. Sounds small but it will go a long way.

Warnings

  • They may always "find a reason" to be angry or annoyed. Just let it go, its not your problem anymore.
  • Brats will always make you look bad, no matter what you do.


Thanks to wikiHow I think this article is good but it doesn't always work for little girls (like me). It's better for big girls (like my sister). Here is the real site for dealing with brats.

Thanks to all the people following my blog!!!

-Tiƒƒany
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